Tip #17: Refrain from Lecturing and Arguing While Overseas

Americans are known to be opinionated and argumentative. No one appreciates an aggressive know it all. Often, the US is perceived to be judge and police of the world. An imperialistic, condescending attitude toward other countries can alienate you toward your fellow world citizens.

In many cultures, it is offensive to impose your views on others and to insist on attempting to change their perspective.

Because the USA is largely a Christian country, Americans have a tendency to presume the entire world is Christian. Remember, only 30% of the world is Christian. And, 20% practice Islam. Never presume to know someone else's belief about God. Religion is considered deeply personal in many parts of the world.

Americans are known to be loud and abrasive. Don't validate this stereotype. Keep a low voice, especially in cultures where people speak more slowly and softly.

Profanity is considered low class everywhere. Don't curse.

Avoid speaking about politics, especially American politics. People in many cultures do not approve of the American worldview and of American foreign policy. If pressed, ask others their points of view and simply listen. Find ways to carefully change the subject to speak of art, food, family, sports or any other (appropriate) topic.

Think as big as you like but talk and act smaller. In many countries, any form of boasting is considered very rude. Talking about wealth, power or status - corporate or personal - can create resentment.

Keep an open mind, avoid arguments, and stay away from controversial topics such as politics, religion, sexual orientation, and gender issues.

Remember, sometimes it's better to be happy than to be right. Also, it is always best to disagree respectfully.